Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Things I'm looking forward to in Utah
1. Being with Kent again
2. A summer of grandparents. My kids still know who grandma and grandpa are and have a relationship with them, but it will be fun for them to get to know each other better.
3. Family and Friends
4. Walks to the park
5. Having a fenced in yard
6. Antelope Island, and the Great Salt Lake (and hopefully some new birds). I'm also looking forward to seeing old friends again, like the magpies, and avocets, and blue, jays that aren't Blue Jays.
7. Mountains. Picnics, camping, summer wildflowers, hiking and having a place to go where its not hot outside when its hot outside.
8. I am looking forward to discovering where the next phase of our life will take us. Will we be in Utah? SLC? Back to Nebraska perhaps? Someplace new?
9. My anniversary. (well I guess that was going to happen no matter where we lived but I'm still looking forward to it so I'm putting it down cuz its my list)
10. Things I will NOT miss about Omaha: Winter (I was going to list stuff like snow pack roads, negative temperatures, no skiing but really I just wont miss anything about the winter). Summer. Okay really just the crazy humid hot days, but other parts of summer I like, when there is a pool around.
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Things I Will Miss About Omaha
10. Fireflies. I feel deprived as a child for not have fireflies growing up.
9. Thunderstorms. Nobody can do a thunderstorm like the Midwest can.
8. $0.50 ice-cream cones from BP, and taking the kids for walks to get one.
7. Spring.
6. The birds. There are many birds that I can see in Utah that I haven't yet, but I still feel like a beginner birder in Nebraska. I'm just scratching the surface on birds to see, and how to find them.
5. The Zoo
4. The Prairie. Believe it or not I have enjoyed the lack of mountains. (except during the winter). It has been fun to discover and find a sense of place in a place that is so different from where I grew up. I can now put a face (so to speak) to books like Sara Plain and Tall, and Little House on the Prairie, not to mention all of the pioneers that traveled west. I have only just begun to explore all that the prairie has to offer.
3. Hitchcock Nature Center. HNC is the cute, beautiful, awesome little nature center that I volunteered at. I will miss the people there, the scenery there, the chance I had to escape there. I will also miss Fontenell Forest, Nealle Woods and other Nature Center out here. I will especially miss the fun programs that they offer for kids and adults alike.
2. My Ward. Growing up I often hear the term "ward family" but never understood it like I do out here. Living away from your extended family your ward family becomes your extended family. You call on them to do what you would ask your family to do. From watching your kids to helping you move. I have had some wonderful opportunities to serve out here and I will miss all that the Rockbrook ward has given me.
1. Of all the things I will miss; the thing I will miss most are the people. Weekly game nights with Journeys, lunch dates with girl friends, play dates for Melissa.
Monday, May 17, 2010
What a Week
Wed morning we took Mia to the doctors. It was one of those things when you debate if it is just a virus or an ear-infection, take her it or not. But we decided to take her because the next day it would be possible would be Monday and if she got worse in the next few days it would be rather inconvenient. We made the right call since she did have the start of an ear-infection, so we got a prescription for antibiotics. Then we went to The Amazing Pizza Machine. I thought it was going to be chucky cheese like, but it was SOO MUCH BETTER. It was Amazing. There was a buffet, slick track, rides, arcades, and lots of fun things to do. We all had a really great time. For pictures click HERE (after I get them loaded). Wed night we packed a little, rescued a stranded friend, and had one more, last game night we some of our favorite people.
Thursday we planned on having pictures in the morning and then head to the Zoo for the afternoon. Since family was going to arrive around noon we invited them to join us. However once again the weather was too cold for pictures Thursday morning so we rescheduled again for 2:30. Which meant the Zoo trip had to be pushed up to the morning. So up we got up and quickly pack a lunch for the Zoo and everything we might need or desired to be immortalized by photographs later. And of course did all of this as fast as possible so as to have as much time as possible at the Zoo, which was packed with field trips. But was still fun and we were able to see the new Madagascar exhibit, which was neat. The Cottam delegation consisting of Mom, Dad, and Brother Kyle, met us at the Zoo. Melissa got to ride the carousel TWICE her favorite at the Zoo, and we got to show the Cottam delegation around a bit before dashing off for family pictures. Click HERE for pictures, after I get them loaded.
We raced up to the temple changed and waited for our photographer. The pictures turn out great and the weather finally cooperated. We bribed Melissa into being good and smiling during pictures with swimming at Grandmas hotel after. So after pictures, Kent and Melissa went to the hotel for swimming. Meanwhile the first wave of Jewkes delegation arrived consisting of Mom, sister Lisa, and sister-in-law Brroke. So I took them and Mia shopping to find me a new dress for all the up coming festivities. I ended up with a skit and blouse outfit and 3 inch heels.
After a week of friends house, childrens museum, pizza machine, zoo, and swimming my poor 3 year old, was exhausted and the fun was just starting. Friday we hit the ground running early again. We were up, dressed up, looking good and out the door for court by 8:15 am. And we played the hurry up and wait game. We waited for our attorney who waited for the judge who was double booked, so we waited for another judge to fill in. Another judge later we finally had a judge. In Utah for Melissa they swore us in, and we testified, our attorney testified, as did a representative from LDSFS. This time the judge visited with us, congratulated us, had Melissa turns some pages and signed the paperwork. She didn't even really read any of it. This could be because she was also double booked, or because she knew and trusted the attorney, or simple because that is her personality. Either way the whole process after waiting for 45 min took 5. But it was an important 5 min because now Mia is officially legally ours. Click HERE for pictures.
We headed home, after a stop to pick up a cap and gown from the law school. The Parental delegation who come to court, went back to hotels to change clothes, so they could take Melissa to the 'big slides'. In the meantime we had lunch, and Mia fell asleep. So I decided to stay home with her so she could sleep in her bed. The Jewkes delegation went to pick up my dad from the airport. And then I went out to eat with the whole Jewkes delegation. (Meanwhile the big slides were a BIG hit. Wax paper really makes them fly and everyone had a great time). More changing clothes and we were off to Hooding.
Shift one (seat savers and graduate) head for the hooding around 4. Shift two arrived just on-time although it was closer than preferred. We had kids, in tow with a packed dinner. Hooding was awesome, although the kids weren't that well behaved, as a result Mom J missed Kent hooding since she was in the hall with screaming baby, (but she volunteered to help with the kids so...) I was very impressed with graduation. It felt very regal, and as my Dad said 'not everyone graduates from law school'. I personally know two people and kent knows more, that either failed, or dropped out before completing law school. I was very proud of Kent and his dedication. Proud too of the small role I may have played. I have always tried hard to encourage but not push. Encourage to find what he likes and pursue. Sometime it is hard to be in the background playing the supporting role but I haven't minded and loved seeing him accomplish this great goal. Although he of course down played the whole thing, as NOT a big deal. Pictures
Saturday morning, was commencement. The Jewkes delegation (minus Mom) volunteered to watch the girls for me, which after Friday night I took them up on. (They really just didn't wait to sit through commencement not that I can blame them). Melissa woke up sick, but eventually perked up enough to swim again. Thanks Lisa and Brooke for watching the girls. Again I was very impressed with commencement. Many graduations try to be too much pomp and circumstances, that they come off silly and dumb, but it was really nice and felt regal. It is the third graduation I have sat through for Kent, since getting married. LDS Business college, University of Utah and now Creighton University. I was more emotional than I thought I would be. It is a significant event for our family. Much has happen because of the decision to go to law school. Wonderful things that will effect our lives forever. Graduation means the end of an era for us. Possibly the end of Omaha which we have loved, and all the people whom we love here. And in many ways student life had its advantages.
We finally got both delegations together for lunch at Farmhouse. I left early to pick up a cake from Walmart and then drove in circles for an HOUR which I didn't have so that Melissa could take a nap. She finally fell a sleep 1/2 hour before we had to leave for the temple. So she wasn't in too great of a mood. I should have packed dinner for her, but between getting the house picked up and myself ready ran out of time.
The temple was incredible, not as streamline and organized as the big busy temples in Utah but more intimate. Mia was adorable, Melissa was still a little grumpy but good. In all the ceremony took about 5 min. But it was an important 5 min. because now Mia is officially, religiously, eternally ours. Pictures.
After the temple we had some friends over to help us eat cake and ice-cream. Sunday morning was actually the most downtime for me. Kent however was frantically trying to pack. Frantically trying to pack a car, his clothes, three years of law school stuff, all the stuff I wouldn't know what to do with, and anything else he may want for 2 weeks. I got the girls ready for church and realized that although my family had been in town for 3 days I felt like I had only had a chance to really visit with them for 10 minutes. Sunday afternoon we blessed Mia in the Rockbrook ward. I was disappointed that Mia's birth family left before I got a chance to visit with them. But everything went really nice. Now everyone, including the records of the church new Mia was officially, forever, ours.
After church brother Kyle drove one of our cars home. Mom J. and Brooke loaded up their car and headed for Alabama. And Dad J., Lisa, and Kent headed to the airport for a 5:30 plane to Salt Lake City. I think the full impacted of everything that had happened and the realization of what the next two weeks for be all came crashing down on my on Sunday afternoon. So I was a wreck. But sleep helped. Sunday night we visited with Mom and Dad C. who left early Monday morning. And then it was just me and my girls.
Whew...no wonder I didn't get dressed until noon on Monday....Writing it all down I see why I was so exhausted. I'm tired just re-reading it all.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
My M&Ms: Bookends
Wednesday: My final day of my job that I loved and had for 7 years.
Thursday: We went to court and finalized the adoption of Melissa
Friday: We took Melissa to the temple to be sealed
Saturday: We had a family and friends get-together/party in the park.
Sunday: We bless Melissa in church.
Monday: We packed up all of our stuff
Tuesday: We left for Omaha Nebraska and Law School
On top of that we didn't have a place to live until that Friday when we were frantically faxing apartment offices. Kent was also trying to solve a major laptop disaster.
2010:
for law school graduation will take place that evening.
Saturday: Kent commencement graduation from Law School ceremony willtake place at 9:00 am. We take Mia to the temple to be sealed that evening
Sunday: We bless Mia in church. Kent flies to Utah that evening.
Two week later the girls and I will follow Kent to Utah.
Our M&Ms two perfect bookends to Law School and our time in Omaha.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Spring
But spring in Omaha is very different. Maybe it is because the winter are so much worse, (at least they are for me). Spring comes slowly but differently. It can snow at anytime and the weather pendulum swings just as dramatically. But once spring wraps its fingers around the world its here to stay. Spring creeps and creeps and than suddenly happens over night. This year we watched and waited and measured as the snow finally slowly began to melt. And there was the old dead grass, and it was a beautiful sight. We gloried in 30, than 40 degree weather. It was warm than cold than warm again. Then it was cloudy and gloomy and raining. But the next morning you woke up and the grass was green. And than another morning you woke up and there are leaves on the trees. The world turns from brown to green almost before your eyes. Spring is no waiting game here! Spring is when you get out and enjoy the world while its not too cold and not too hot. Spring is beautiful. People start coming out of their houses like bears that have been hibernating. They return to the coolness of the cave once the summer gets in full swing.
And then of course there is the spring migration. Spring migration is awesome in Utah but in Omaha it just seem more dramatic somehow. Maybe because winter birding is harder and less productive here. Spring migration in Omaha comes in two parts. There is the early migration of cranes and waterfowl. And the second one when the shorebirds and the warblers come back. And as I said before it get me twitching. There is so much to go see and bird. Like the grass and the trees coming to life before you eyes, the birding community 'springs' to life overnight.
And my other favorite thing about spring, sleeping with the windows open. It reminds me of sleeping outside and it is one of my most favorite simple pleasures in life.
Spring also means my birthday. I love having a spring birthday, the flowers seem to bloom just for my birthday.
HAPPY SPRING EVERYONE!
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Conversations with a Big M
Melissa: Jumps on my back piggy back style
Me: "Melissa why don't you go find a toy to play with"
Melissa: continues jumping on my back
Me: "Go get a toy to play with"
Melissa: continues jumping on my back
Me: "Go get a toy or something"
Melissa: "You ARE a toy."
Me: What do you want to do today Melissa?
Melissa: mmm Lets go for a walk
Me: Its rainy and cold outside
Melissa: Well we can take umbrellas
Me: What about Mia?
Melissa: You can put her coat on
Me: What else do you want to do today?
Melissa: Go to the park
Me: What do you want to do today at home?
Melissa: pasues looks around the house, "hmmmmmm, (eyes light up) play outside"
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Birding with a Big M
Earlier this week I took Melissa. I didn't really plan on it, but at the last minute I took her. We drove out to Lincoln to see the Pine Warbler. I thought the chances of seeing it with my attention divided were minimal, but 5 min after leaving the car there it was. I not only saw it but had great looks of it, heard it sing, and was able to relocated it twice. After satisfyingly watching it for a few minutes I was able to throw pine cones in the lake with Melissa, took her to the play ground, and the nature center. It was a spectacular park and I had THE BEST time there. I had so much fun with her and the park and the birds. It was a wonderful day.
And then I got cocky.
I figure it worked out so well I would try it again. But this time I had both kids. I had it all planned out, we were going to go for a hike down at Fontenelle, and sit and wait for the woodpecker to come to us. After arriving it took me forever to get the baby in the front back, the back pack full of water, treats, snacks, diapers, wipes and other mommy essentials, on my back, binoculars in hand, and ready to leave when Melissa insisted we look at the horses first. Then informed me she had to pee. There are no bathroom anywhere NEAR where we were. Since I had just gotten ready I did not want to load everything back up into the car: but that is exactly what I should have done.
I thought I could talk her into peeing in the woods. After convincing her there were no bathrooms around which was no small feet we started on the trail. I then tried to get her to go off the trail a little way to go. But she got bonked with the binoculars, and then got into some prickle bushes, and they hurt really bad. Now all she wanted to do was go home, not that I could blame her, but I didn't want to leave on such a negative note. So I convinced her to keep going (by saying we were on a loop and the car was up the trail which wasn't a Total lie). She started having fun but would not leave the trail for fear of more ochy plants and we never did take care of the other problem. I'm sure by this time you can guess the end of the story and no, the mommy backpack did not contain an extra pair of pants, underwear or socks.
On the upside, I gave Missa her own pair of binoculars and she thought that was so cool, and she look stinky cute looking through them the wrong way, we heard a barred owl at 2:00 p.m. and Mia cooed at the trees.
Ah the misadventures of the birding mother of two adorable kids. Maybe one day I will learn but I doubt it.